MARRIAGE: AN EVERLASTING BOND OF LOVE

1.Cheer leader: Support your spouse in every way you can .Let your partner know how important he or she is to you and rest of the world.

2.Learn to compromise: Compromise is a part of daily living in marriage. No one can have it his or her way. Discuss how two of you can make decisions. Establish a plan to work through important issues until you find a mutually agreeable solution.

3.Carry burden of your marriage on four shoulders; not just two.Learn to sense when your spouse needs help. Even when he or she does not ask for it. Helpfulness should become such matter of habit that you will feel and act like a winning team.

4.Communicate constantly: Couples must talk about everything and anything. In successful marriage life there are no secrets.

5.Never go to bed mad: you may have a long night but by resolving problems, will have a goodnight sleep.

6.Successful relations are about mutual love and respect. Habits can be formed for either good or ill, so why not make a habit to always treat your spouse the way you wanted to be treated?

7.Give spouse freedom to be: Respect individuality of your spouse. Your partner is a complex individual with many interests, desires, ideas habits and experiences. Don't narrowly define your mate's capabilities.

8.The absolute need for privacy and time alone is a fundamental predisposition of every human being alone so if one partner needs to stay alone, respect it instead of getting angry.

9.Taking care of your partner's health also along with Yourself is another aspect of a successful marriage.

10.Smile and laugh together often. It is the simplest of expressions with most powerful effect.

11.A successful relationship is exciting, full of surprises, and rarely boring. Don't always do that which is boring. Variety is spice of life.

12.Always remember that the person you love is human being too. In times of challenges and disappointments, do you best to be compassionate and forgiving.

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